Tuesday, August 27, 2013

WILLIAM AND EMILY GRAHAM BUTTER FAMILY



     William Butter, the eldest child of Henry and Susan O'Neal Butter, was born 8 June 1850 in Forest Hill, Rapides Parish, Louisiana.  He and Emily Graham married 29 October 1868 also in Forest Hill. (Marriage record Rapides Parish Courthouse Vol. B p. 73)  As mentioned in a previous post, Emily was the daughter of Robert Graham and Ruth Lucy Smith.  Emily was born 10 August 1846 probably in Jackson Parish, Louisiana where they still resided in the 1850 census.  By 1860 the family had arrived in Forest Hill.

Emily Graham as a young woman


Marriage License for William Butter and Emily Graham



 
















  Following are the children of William and Emily Butter: All were born in Forest Hill, LA.

     1.  Henry Robert Butter b. 25 August 1869; d. 18 December 1941, Lecompte, Rapides, LA; buried Butter Cemetery, Forest Hill, Rapides, LA.  Married Lavinia Matilda Dunn (more on this family later).
     2.  William Marshall Butter b. 20 August 1871; d. 14 May 1953, Lecompte, Rapides, LA. Married Ella Johnson.
     3.  Beaula Virginia Butter b.8 August 1873; d. 16 November 1947; buried Butter Cemetery, Forest Hill, Rapides, LA.  Married Ennis Simpson Duck.
     4.  Lula D. Butter b. 19 July 1877; d. 2 September 1952. Married Hadley Robert Graham, 16 March 1906, Rapides Parish, LA.  (Note: Lula and Hadley were first cousins as Lula's mother, Emily Graham and Hadley's father, William Jackson Graham were siblings.)
     5.  John Rufus Butter b. 25 November 1879; d. 4 January 1978, Forest Hill, LA.  Married Fannie Duck.
     6.  Randall Butter b. 14 September 1882; d. 28 January 1946. Married Isabella (Izzie) Henderson.

     There appears to be some confusion on the given name for William Butter.  The only way he ever signed his name was William Butter - no middle name and no initial.  None of my aunts and uncles, his grandchildren, ever said his name was anything but William.  A number of public family trees on various websites have him listed as William Marshall Butter.  I think that the confusion comes from several sources. William and Emily named their second child William Marshall Butter.  Second, the abbreviation for William is Wm.  Also, William's death certificate lists William Marshall as his name. I clearly believe that this was a mistake and until proven wrong, I will continue to list him as just William Butter.

     Two of my aunts and my Dad shared some of their memories of their grandmother, Emily Graham Butter.  She was a tiny, dainty woman who was a good housekeeper.  She loved to pick huckleberries for making pies and she would take a cane pole to the bank of the lake and fish for hours.  Emily was a good church worker and she would prepare communion for the church and William would help serve the communion. One aunt remembered helping her grandmother pick figs from the fig trees in her yard and then make fig preserves.  She would also help Grandma Emily cut out scraps of fabric to make quilts.  Quilts in those days were made to be used so many did not survive intact.  I feel so blessed to have one of my Great Grandmother Emily Butter's quilts pictured below.





     William Butter followed in his father Henry's footsteps and served as clerk for the Spring Hill Baptist Church. Henry Butter last signed minutes for the Spring Hill meetings on September 3, 1880; he died on November 20, 1880.  On Saturday, February 5, 1881, William Butter signed as Clerk Pro Tem and on Saturday, March 5, 1881, William signed as Clerk.  From then on William was listed as Clerk, Recorder or Moderator for most of the meetings through July 31, 1897 which is the last meeting for which I have a copy.
Like most of his family and friends in that area, William was a farmer for most of his life.

Home of William and Emily Graham Butter
Forest Hill, Rapides Parish, Louisiana
     The only known picture of William is the one of he and Emily standing together as an older couple.


     William Butter died February 8, 1923.  Emily Graham Butter lived a few more years until November 28, 1933.  They are both buried in the Butters Cemetery, Forest Hill, Louisiana.



   

Saturday, August 17, 2013

GRAHAM-SMITH CONNECTION

GRAHAM/SMITH CONNECTION

     William Butter (son of Henry Butter and Susan Eliza O'Neal) was the first child and was born in 1850 in Forest Hill, Rapides Parish, Louisiana. Emily Graham was the daughter of Robert Graham and Ruth Lucy Smith. Emily was born in Louisiana – probably Jackson Parish.
     As referenced before, there is an excellent Graham blog called SouthernRoots and Shoots. For most of the Graham information, I will defer to that resource. However, besides covering William and Emily Graham Butter, I would like to present some information on Emily's mother, Ruth Lucy Smith. Until recently, nothing was known of the Smith line. Working backwards, here is what has been discovered.

     In the 1880 census, there was a Thomas Walker, white, male, 22 years old living in the household of William and Laura Graham. William and Emily were siblings. Backing up to the 1870 census for Rapides Parish, William and Emily (Graham) Butter had Elizabeth Walker, 7, female, white, living in the same house.

     1870 Rapides Parish were also Joel Merchant and Elizabeth (Graham) Merchant with Dempsey Walker, 12, female, white.

     Continuing in 1870 were Daniel H. Willis and wife Julianna (Graham) Willis with Sarah Walker, 17, white, female.

     Next to Robert Graham (father of the above Grahams) were William Walker, 17, male, white, and Thomas Walker, 13, male, white.

     So, what was the connection with the Grahams and the Walkers? Going back another ten years, there is a Thomas Walker, 33, born Mississippi and wife Charity Walker, 44, born Mississippi. Their children were Charlotte, 9; William, 7 and Sarah 7; Jefferson 4 (this was Thomas); and Dempsy, 2.

     William Walker (oldest son of Thomas and Charity) lived as an adult in Rapides Parish, Louisiana. His death record appears in Louisiana Death Index 1850-1875 and lists his mother's maiden name as Charity Smith. From this bit of information plus the fact that the Walker children were all living with Graham families from 1860 forward, then it is likely that Charity Smith and Ruth Lucy Smith are sisters. Next step will be to try to find parents and other siblings.